‘I started dating a married man. It ended when his wife’s friend caught me in their bed.’

Not between the wives and me, though I would be interested to hear their side. No, this discussion should happen between wives and husbands, annually, the way we inspect the tire tread on the family car to avoid accidents. A few years ago, while living in London, I dated married men for companionship while I processed the grief of being newly divorced. When I created a profile on Tinder and OkCupid, saying I was looking for no-strings-attached encounters, plenty of single men messaged me and I got together with several of them. But many married men messaged me too. After being married for 23 years, I wanted sex but not a relationship.

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The best dating apps 2020: straight, gay or bi, find love whatever your orientation

They may once have been something that raised an eyebrow, but now almost everyone I know has been on a dating app date. According to a study by Euroclinic, nearly one fifth of the 2, UK adults they polled are polyamorous. Conversations around sex and desire have really opened up over the last five years as people feel more empowered to explore what they like. However, as in any relationship, being clear about what you want from the beginning will help you find a match when using apps. The following apps are great at matching people who are looking for a threesome and will give you the space to talk about what you want and where your boundaries are beforehand. Here are the best ones to download now.

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